Mistake #1
Life is incomplete without mistakes.
Some mistakes are healthy. Some still give me nightmares.
However each one of them gave me some outlook. Some learning. Some knowledge.
Taking about a mistake,
Its still a part of my personality in some bits and corners.
Some mistakes are healthy. Some still give me nightmares.
However each one of them gave me some outlook. Some learning. Some knowledge.
Taking about a mistake,
Its still a part of my personality in some bits and corners.
Comparing.
Comparing myself with the world.
Comparing myself with others.
Comparing myself with 'ideal' norms.
In this question of 'Who am I?', this mistake I know I make.
Comparing myself with the world.
Comparing myself with others.
Comparing myself with 'ideal' norms.
In this question of 'Who am I?', this mistake I know I make.
I have compared myself to my sibling, to my girl friends, to my boy friends, to my colleagues.
I wanted to be powerful like my brother.
I wanted to be girly like her in late childhood.
Smart in my 10th and 12th grade like many others in school.
Thin like many others in teenage.
Mature like a few in adulthood.
I have tried being all of them.
I wanted to be powerful like my brother.
I wanted to be girly like her in late childhood.
Smart in my 10th and 12th grade like many others in school.
Thin like many others in teenage.
Mature like a few in adulthood.
I have tried being all of them.
And every time I tried, I failed and gave myself a hard time.
Beat myself to it.
Sometimes still do.
Beat myself to it.
Sometimes still do.
In the situation, when i feel the need to compare myself to anyone.
I don't realize that since childhood, I have assumed that I am NOT.
I assumed that I am not powerful or girly or smart or thin or mature.
And my belief in this assumption was strong.
So strong, that I let others perceive the same.
How did this happen? Where did this assumption and so strong belief in it come from?
I still have no clue.
Maybe that's an area I will be able to explore and understand in this journey.
But every day passing by gives me a piece of wisdom.
Wisdom that whenever I feel the need to compare,
I can now recognize it, accept it and try not let it affect me.
Wisdom that helps me understand that its only a mistake.
And mistakes are good.
Its the evidence of Growth.
Its the evidence of Life.
P.s: Thank you so much for all the love on my previous episodes. This journey is going to be a long one and I hope we share it together every week.
Stay tuned for the next episode on next Thursday. Keep showering your love and take care of your health. Physical as well as mental. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. You can also connect to me
via email- aishd19@gmail.com
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Until then,
Keep smiling!
Stay tuned for the next episode on next Thursday. Keep showering your love and take care of your health. Physical as well as mental. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. You can also connect to me
via email- aishd19@gmail.com
or via Instagram account name -@callmeaishwarya - https://www.instagram.com/callmeaishwarya/?hl=en
Until then,
Keep smiling!
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So nicely written baby, so good... Keep it up
ReplyDeleteMommy 😗😗
DeleteDear Aishwarya,
ReplyDeleteYes you are right, it is all the belief system that makes a person either very powerful or vennurable to the extent that it damages the personality.
Changing the original beliefs is a science recently developed that is a technique called PSYCH K, originally developed by Rob Williams. You can visit on psych-k.com.
Nurturing good subconscious beliefs is a need of today's education system in the tender age, and that can help avoid such long propogsting mistakes in everyone's life...
You can take this as a challenge for future generations... Have a great time and new mistakes always... Keep it up, keep searching, keep learning, and return the beautiful pie to the society.... Who I'm I ??
True! I will visit the website..
DeleteYou are baba!!
Very well said Aaishwarya
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
DeleteThis is your grandmother's comment.
ReplyDeleteComparing oneself to others is a universel tendency. This habbit pushes oneself towards growth and makes the man better ,near to the ideals we heard and believe.
Aishwarya, you are right when you say that life is incomplete without mistakes and the mistakes make you perfect.
Aajji.
Aajii 😙😙
DeleteMistakes r good.. as we try something, we will commit few mistakes.. atleast we will understand few more ways that will not lead to desired result..To not to choose next time.. it will make us mature in real sense as we wl make mistakes we will fail and it wil open our eyes.. and it will create a memory atleast..
ReplyDeleteNicely narrated.. it gave all together new outlook to our mistakes..!!!